Become the Man You’re Meant to Be

You’re here because something in you knows it’s time for change. Not surface change but real, grounded transformation.

You may have built a life, a career, or a family… yet somehow lost connection with yourself along the way.

You feel the pressure, the overthinking, the emotional shutdown, the fatigue of carrying too much alone.

You sense that there is more to you — more depth, more clarity, more presence, more life-force — but you don’t yet know how to access it.

This retreat is the answer.

A full-day, one-on-one immersion created to bring you back into your body, your instinct, your emotional truth, and your grounded masculine presence.

Begin Your Journey

This retreat is for you if you

Feel tired of living in your head — planning, analysing, managing everything alone.

Notice a disconnect from your body, desire, instinct, or masculine energy.

Carry grief after the death of a loved one, or emotional pain from separation or divorce.

Feel unseen, misunderstood, or unsure how to express what you feel.

Want deeper intimacy, better communication, and stronger connection with women.

Struggle with sexual energy, performance anxiety,
low desire, or compulsive patterns.

Want to embody presence rather than perform it.

Are ready to meet yourself with honesty, depth, and courage.

Feel tired of living in your head — planning, analysing, managing everything alone.

Take a quiz to find out if the Retreat is right for you

There is a deeper way of being a man — anchored, alive, and fully here. Step into the version of yourself that’s waiting to emerge.

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What This Retreat Can Help With

A trauma-informed, grounded container to explore:

Emotional +
Life Challenges

Grief, loss
heartbreak
Separation, divorce or relationship transitions
Emotional numbness
overwhelm or shutdown

Intimacy +
Relationships

Lack of pleasure, desire, or connection
Difficulties within your relationship
Breakups or emotional disconnection
Communication challenges or unclear boundaries
Building trust and intimacy
Dating, confidence, and forming meaningful connections
Understanding women and supporting a partner through menopause

Sexuality +
Embodiment

Performance anxiety or pressure
Low libido or difficulty experiencing pleasure
Porn dependency or repetitive sexual patterns
Awakening erotic energy
Becoming a more attuned, confident, embodied lover

Masculine Presence +
Self-Connection

Reconnecting with your body
Feeling grounded, clear, and centered
Strengthening self-worth and internal confidence
Returning to vitality and aliveness
Integrating vulnerability with strength

The Experience

This is an 8-hour private retreat dedicated fully to you — blending embodiment, conscious touch, breathwork, emotional release, intimacy coaching, and integration support.

Your day may include:

Grounding + intention
Breathwork + presence practices
Tantra-based energy work
Bodywork + conscious touch
Emotional release work
Intimacy and relationship coaching
Integration + next steps

This is deep, steady work — not a quick fix — and the impact continues long after the day ends.

What You’ll Walk Away With

By the end of the retreat, you will have:

A stronger sense of presence and grounded masculine energy

More clarity around your desires, needs, and boundaries

Nervous system tools for regulation and emotional resilience

Renewed confidence in intimacy and relationships

A deeper connection to your erotic energy and vitality

Release of old patterns and emotional weight

A renewed sense of inner strength, purpose, and direction

This is your invitation to reconnect with your body, your presence, and your masculine power.  If you’re ready to commit to yourself and step into your full expression, I’m here to guide you.

I am ready!

Practical Details

Duration

10:00 AM – 6:00 PM
(8-hour immersive session)

Investment

€950 (includes lunch and integration time)

Locations

Co. Wexford · Co. Galway
Co. Cavan · Co. Cork

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Facilitated by

Dakini Dea — Tantra therapist, Somatic Intimacy & Relationship Coach and Grief Educator

How to Book

Choose your preferred date and time and confirm with a deposit of 50% or full payment.

What to bring

Comfortable clothing & something you care about. Everything else will be provided.

Who am I

I am Dakini Dea, a trauma-informed Intimacy & Relationship Coach and Grief Educator with over 20 years of experience supporting individuals through emotional, relational, and personal transformation.

I integrate conscious connection practices, conscious touch, NLP techniques, breathwork, meditation, energy work, sex education, and grief support to create a safe and respectful environment for change.

My approach is gentle, compassionate, and steady.

There is no pressure to perform — only space to meet yourself honestly and with care.

This retreat is part of the work I’ve devoted my life to: helping men reconnect with their bodies, understand their emotional patterns, and access grounded, authentic masculine presence.

Why I Guide This Work

For more than 20 years, I’ve supported men and women who felt disconnected, overwhelmed, or stuck in their minds. I create spaces where you can arrive exactly as you are — and be met without judgment.

You’ll find the tools, safety, and support needed to create real change.

My role is to guide you back to what is true in you — so you can rise into the man you are becoming.

Here are a few experiences shared by men of different ages and life stages, who chose the Embodied Man Retreat as a space to slow down, reconnect with themselves, and explore a different way of being.

You know when something in you is asking for more. More honesty, more courage, more aliveness.  If you feel that quiet pull inside, trust it. It’s your next chapter calling you forward.

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FAQ

Here are answers to some of the most common questions man ask before booking. I hope this helps you feel informed, comfortable, and at ease as you prepare for your retreat.

How do I prepare?

Come exactly as you are.

There’s nothing to do perfectly — only to give yourself permission to slow down and arrive fully.

You may wish to:

• Wear comfortable clothing that allows you to move and breathe freely.
• Avoid eating a heavy meal right before your session.

Is this sexual?

No — this work is not sexual in the conventional sense.

There is no sexual service or exchange of any kind.

These sessions are a form of somatic and sacred bodywork — a trauma-informed exploration of your sensual energy.

Will there be sexual contact with the facilitator?

No. There is never any sexual activity between the facilitator and participants. Dakini Dea’s role is to guide and hold a safe, professional space for your experience.

Can I touch you?

No — these sessions are designed for you to receive.

There is no intimate or sexual touch toward me.

Gentle, non-intimate contact (like holding hands or a supportive touch on the arm) may happen naturally, but the focus always remains entirely on you and your process.

What if I get an erection?

It’s completely natural. An erection is simply a normal physical response to sexual energy in the body and is welcomed without judgment.

We treat it as natural energy—not a request for sexual activity.

Do I need to be naked?

No — you never have to be naked.
Your comfort, boundaries, and choice are honoured at every moment.

Some man prefer to stay partially covered, others may choose to be fully naked during lyngham massage or conscious touch— both are completely welcome. You can also adjust at any time during the session.

This work is about freedom, not expectation — an invitation to connect with your body from a place of safety, trust, and self-respect.

What if I feel nervous or emotional?

That’s absolutely okay — and actually very common.

These sessions often bring deep relaxation, emotional release, or gentle tears as your body begins to feel safe enough to let go.

You’re always held in a compassionate, non-judgmental space.

Whatever arises — tears, laughter, stillness, or silence — is welcome and honoured.

What should I wear?

Please wear whatever helps you feel comfortable, relaxed, and free — soft clothing that allows easy movement and breathing.

You’ll be offered a sarong or light covering if you wish to wear one during the session.

The focus is always on your comfort, choice, and ability to relax into the experience.

What if I don’t live nearby? Do you travel?

Yes — I am based in Co. Wexford – Ireland and visit Co.Galway, Co. Cavan and Co. Cork four times a year. I am also available to go to other Counties by arrangement.

What happens during a session?

Every session is unique — a co-created journey guided by your needs, energy, and boundaries in the moment.

We begin with gentle conversation, where you can share how you’re feeling, what you wish to explore, and any boundaries you’d like to set. Together, we create a clear, safe container before anything begins.

From there, we move into breathwork, grounding, movement and somatic practices to help your body relax and open naturally.
If it feels right for you, the session may include conscious touch, energy work, Lyngham massage — always at your pace and with your ongoing consent.

Throughout the experience, you’re invited to stay connected to your breath, sensations, and inner rhythm. You can pause, speak, or adjust at any time.

We close with quiet integration, giving your body time to rest, absorb, and anchor what was experienced.

Most man leave feeling nourished, peaceful, and deeply connected — more open, centered, and alive in their bodies.

Can I come if I’ve experienced sexual trauma or other traumas?

Yes — absolutely. You are welcome exactly as you are, with your story, your pace, and your boundaries.

These sessions are designed to restore safety, trust, and connection within your own body. Through breath, presence, and gentle somatic practices, we create a foundation of safety before any touch or deeper exploration takes place.

Nothing is ever forced or rushed. You are always in control — your consent, comfort, and readiness guide every step of the process.
This is a space for healing, empowerment, and remembrance — where your body’s wisdom leads the way home.

Does your sessions have an age limit?

This work is open to man of all ages, starting from 18 years old.

There’s no upper age limit — my oldest participant so far was 85, and the practices were adapted beautifully to meet his needs.

Each session is tailored to your energy, experience, and body, so you’ll be fully supported exactly where you are in life.

Does your sessions serve wheelchair users or people with disabilities?

Yes, absolutely. Accessibility and inclusion are very important to me.

If you use a wheelchair or have specific mobility or health needs, please reach out before booking so we can ensure the space and practices are adapted for your comfort.
If you need to bring a carer or support person, they are also warmly welcome.

My intention is to make this experience safe, accessible, and deeply nourishing for everyone who feels called to this work.

What’s the cancellation policy?

To secure your booking, a deposit of 50% is required. If you need to cancel, the deposit is non-refundable.

If you wish to reschedule, you must provide at least 24 hours’ notice. Changes made with less than 24 hours’ notice will require a new deposit to book another time. Thank you for understanding and for honouring the time reserved for your retreat.

How can we get in touch with you?

You can reach me in whichever way feels easiest for you:
• Through the booking form on this website
• Via WhatsApp at 087-409-7943
• By email at contacts@embodiedmanretreat.com